It's our 5th Anniversary (R.O.M) today. We met eleven years ago when I was still in my first year doing a degree at a local University. He was in his 2nd year, same course but different major. The place we met? In the forest coz we were camping. The camp was part of our course. Good ler.....Just complete your 2-week camp and pass your practical training for that semester. I must say that course was and perhaps is still the most exciting and fun course around in Malaysia. Unfortunately, work prospect is not good. That's why I'm stuck in the same company for 8 years. That is another story....Now, where was I..........Ahaaa........the visits......We got to visit and see so many places. Every now and then were trips. My friends doing other courses were so jealous with me. The things we were supposed to see were not exciting (sorry to say that) but the journey and interaction between course mates were memorable.
Those were the days. I'm still yearning for those carefree, live-free and eat-free days (Expenses all born by parents mar). Now, everything also 'tanggung sendiri'.
Our relationship went through difficult times too. Both our parents were not too happy with our relationship coz different culture mar. Then the financial difficulties. Living under one roof also another story. We have to adjust to the different preferences. We still argue on the toilet seat sometimes - should it be up or down? That's a minor thing but can be irritating. But I guess these are all part and parcels of a marriage. Argument is one way of communication too, right?
We struggled and managed to pull through and things have settled down quite a bit now. We have a wonderful son. What more can I ask for?
Errrr.......perhaps another holiday?????
17 comments:
..wowow...times just flies. I still remember the moments we spend together during the camp n the moment u both met....really wishing u both happy forever...Happy Anniversary
Happy Anniversary to u n ur hubby! Yup... another hol wud be nice... to make another bb! kekeke
Happy Anniversary to both of you!!
We too have the initially agruement on the toilet seat too..but was later ironed out..like you said, its all parts and parcel of married life!
happy 5th anniversary ;). Me oso on the 5th year hehe...i agree with u, we still argue over small lil things, but it is things like this that gets us closer together :)
happy anniversary, you guys! and many many more years to come!
gosh, anyone could use another holiday, right?
Happy Anniversary. Yes yes.. argument is part of communication.
I'll get dead worried if my hubs don't tease me for a day.. he sure 'san yau si' (probably did something wrong). Hope you had a great celebration!
Yes you should babe, another holiday.
Happy anniversary guys!! :) And yeah, everyone needs a holi-holiday! Haha!
annie,
yeah, so long ago already.
slavemom,
thanks. hehe........no lar, no plan for another baby yet
blessed mum,
thanks!
jazzmint,
thanks! 'kem ngam ger'
raggedyanne,
thanks! correct correct correct!!
etc-mommy,
thanks! no celebration wor :-(
lunz-lunz,
proposal rejected by my 'finance minister' liao
nadia,
thanks..thanks...
Agreed - arguments sometimes better than no talking at all!!!
marriage is indeed not easy...a holiday does smoothen things better!!
Happy Anniversary!
happy anniversary! I think everyone should go on holiday!
happy belated wedding anniversary!! A very lovely post to describe your relationship with your hubby!!
happy belated anniversary to u both!! a holiday is an awesome idea ;) by the way, do u think the toilet seat argument will ever end..? hehehehe
ann,
yes, not talking is indeed worse.
sasha,
how come my hubby doesn't seem to think so..sigh..
baby darren,
oh thanks!! :-)
babybooned,
if only men can pee while sitting down
Happy belated anniversary.
The most important thing is that you guy are together to go through thick and thin.
Different cultures?? mine too. Just learn to give and take. :)
thanks! still learning here :-)
Im in a mixed marriage too .. no wonder our sons so handsome hahahahahaha!
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